What do women really wish their men knew about them?
A five-year survey of thousands of women by family life expert Dr. James Dobson found that women have a hard time communicating with men about the special needs in their lives.
Here are the secret problems that women wish men knew about… and Dr. Dobson’s advice about what men can do to help their women:
1. LOW SELF-ESTEEM
Women wish their men knew that they are struggling with low self-esteem and feelings of inadequacy. The wise man will constantly seek to bolster a woman’s confidence with compliments about her looks, how she runs her life, manages her home, the kids and her job.
2. FATIGUE AND TIME PRESSURE
Women wish their men knew that successfully coping with the chores of a home, raising and caring for the kids – especially while employed outside the home – is often frustrating and stressful. The smartest thing a man can do is show his awareness of how much a woman actually does.
3. EXTREME LONELINESS AND ISOLATION
Women wish men knew how lonely, bored and isolated they feel when men give too much attention to their careers or leisure pursuits and not enough to them.
4. LACK OF ROMANCE
Women wish their men knew that what makes a man sexy is not so much his looks as his actions. A man can help his mate get into a sexy mood through acts and words that demonstrate his love such as tenderness and affection.
5. ANATOMY AND PHYSICAL PROBLEMS
Women wish men knew that their moods and feelings can be affected by things like monthly cycles, pregnancy and menopause. A man should educate himself about the changes his wife experiences in her body during these times. There are plenty of websites on the subject.
6. TROUBLES WITH IN-LAWS
Women wish their men knew they want to be in first place when conflicts develop between wife and mother-in-law. When a man sees a conversation between his wife and his mother heading for a dispute, he should diplomatically resolve it in his wife’s favor – or at least change the subject.
7. AGING
Women wish their men knew that as they get into their 50s, 60s and 70s, they still think and feel as they did when they were younger and need to receive the same amount of love, affection and respect from their men as they did in their earlier years. Men should know that a kiss, flowers, a tender look across the room can do wonders for a woman’s mood and self-esteem.
Wow, a must read for all men, but you are an extreme gentleman if you already know those simple facts and don't need to read this.
women want to be happy, what makes them happy? Money, Power and Leisure. Men want the same things and also sex. Men will trade off for sex. Women know this and play it to the hilt. They just want your paycheck and as soon as you learn that, then you will know the answer to the secret that makes them happy! Whoop there it is!