Asian women share tips on how to catch a man and keep him happy.
For generations Asian women learned how to treat a man by following rules laid down by Thai philosopher Sunthron Phu in his book Maxims for Teaching Women. Now they’ve taken his words of wisdom that have been passsed down fro more than 2,000 years and updated them to deal with men in 2012.
Here are the winning recommendations for Western women who want to trade be successful in love and marriage:
1) YOUR MAN IS KING - Remember that your man/husband comes first – before you, your parents, your outside interests or even your children.
2) RISE EARLY. Get up in the morning before your man does. Make sure you prepare a healthy breakfast so he gets a good start on the day. Even if you have to leave before him, make sure he has a nice breakfast waiting for him when he comes into the kitchen in the morning.
3) NEVER NAG. Never, ever. If he wants to stop off after work and have a few drinks with his buddies, that’s his business. If he forgot to take out the garbage – do it yourself.
4) BE AT HOME. Make sure you’re always at home when he gets in from a hard day at the office. Even if you are working, make sure you get home to your man/husband as soon as possible.
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oh please! I'm an asian woman and this? this is stupid.
I laugh at whoever wrote this.
Get your facts straight!
Kute very good !
im an asian. those things is not necessary. we never want to be a king. maybe some of asian men want it,but not me. and those secret is not a secret. it is a bullshit.
From a side of new gen Asian woman like me, I personally wouldn't do those to my future husband anymore. – -"
And yay I don't even know how to cook too. ; (
Anyway, there're something I'd do like waiting for him to come home late at night. It's just to show how much I care about him.
You should be know fast how to cook to…
then kill yourself, unworthy fucking piece of shit!
seriously?~!? bullshit!!
please,, its 2012 now!!!!!!
errrr trust me most asian girls aren't what you describe dude, you probably take those characteristics from a geisha movie or sumthin…seriously what a load of crap!
ohh please… all these women are spoiled
the new gen women are now bunch of slacks, they dont know how to do anything useful
all they know is how to be pretty, im not saying they should follow these rules, they are bullshit too i know.
but just because they are bullshit doesnt mean u can just slack around and leech on hard working men or go flurt other guys when wer not around
we should make new rule, no make up after marrage
This is still happen in 2012. There is a viet student who works in our take away shop with my husband. She treats my husband like a king, instead of serving customer, she put all her effort to serve my husband. Later they have affair and he really felt for her. He wrote her lots of romantic love letters even he is not a romantic person. I think this secret really works, able to change a man personally.
This is exactly how my Thai GF is. She is from Chiang Mai. BKK girls are different however. We actually got in an argument because I wanted to help clean up after dinner…… who am i to discourage 2000 yrs of culture and tradition.
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i'm an asian it's not a secret, those traits we took from our mother (so its still depends on the roots). its not bullshit we only love to serve our man.
For Asian men living in Asia, it is possible, but for Western men, I don't think those secrets work, could be disaster. I'm Asian, my wife always do some (not all) of the rules above. It's true. These are woman secret to control a husband. As a result, I rarely complain and I never bother to give her all of my salary and let her manage everything including my wallet You think I am stupid, but I don't care
all fantasies
you do know woman are not that famine. you a lot of woman these days are way to lazy to even consider doing this stuff. especially since its the 21 sentry and the worlds packed with tech so dont expect too much.
This is NOT true…First of all most of average Asian women have no any advantage upon Western women. Asian women, most of them, have very bad personalities and they are great liars, pretenders, not honest and they will go, or have a secret affair with the first one who show more money…MOST of them…Well, the only way she have to keep her husband around her, is between her legs. That is what SHE thinks but it is NOT what her husband thinks so most of them will go with minor women, often it is more than one. That is why Asian wives don't mind if their husbands visiting massage salons for to have sex there. This author should to think about THIS fact, as some advantage(if it is at all)…
For wife, it is better her husband stay short time with prostitutes than to have a minor wife all the time where all his money will go. That is one of many reasons why prostitution WAS/IS/WILL be so high in Asia.
loser!!
Bronco can be a loser but Bronco is not a clown. Bronco is almost decade living in SE Asia, published 2 books about this matter and preparing the 3rd. So if you have something to say about this matter, go ahead but let it be not a crap only. Clear?
BTW, when is your birthday? I will buy you a gift. One BIG mirror that you can see ALL your naivety.
For change, read BOOKS, read researches of anthropology, some studies of many experienced and qualified people for this matter, about societies in SE Asia. A few of them are born in Asia.
ONLY that way, you will find:
1) In case you are a farang – you will discover some more things about SE Asia. Not just cheap sex and beer-bars, night women – as it is, obviously, your daily routine and understanding, knowledge about Asian women behavior. Your habits disillusioned you, obviously…
2) If you are Thai-you will find a way to finally FACE the TRUE about yourself, your women. Without loosing face, if possible, please.
Try to talk by some valid, relevant proves here so, try to deny my statements here about polygamous society in particular in Thailand – as part of ancient tradition. Thailand WAS society of good taking care wives, until Japanese occupation of Thailand but all was ruined during and after the war in Vietnam, by so many GIs here, which was the root of huge prostitution and resulted by loosing any traditional value in marriage in Thailand-in most of cases and escalated onto this today, in Thailand.
Once upon a time, wife in Thailand WAS good taking care wife. Today, youngsters lost it. So, no way it is truth what this Thai novelist pointed.
Are you a fu**ing idiot? So all you've visited is some loser part of asia and you boast of your knowledge about asians from living there? well "eto ka, gago ,,l,," You speak as if your country and culture is clean, like prostitution and infidelity does not exist in your country. You're the one who's naive! writing a book about anything does not automatically make you an expert about anything. The fact that you are replying here means that you're just like anybody else here who's an idiot, and yes, i am an idiot for commenting here too. Asia is not just one country, you have to see every bit of it to understand it completely, you must've lived in a red light district for that decade you lived in asia that you're boasting about. You moron, i've been asian for more than 2 decades and i can say that your description about asian women is sooooo far from reality. ,,l,, bronco, sounds like some red-neck KKK kick out.. you should just die.
Man, you really need some help? I mean some medical specialist could help you. I am very flexible but your level of talk is unacceptable. It is very primitive and i just can guess what you are doing so long time in Asia, as you are purely out of mind, retarded. I was in Laos, Vietnam and Thailand so i know most of things and i said here about it. Phu was talking about LONG TIME AGO women. It is situation today. He was talking about ONE country only. Someone used his name to speak about whole Asia, all women which is far from true, however…
dude stfu
SE Asia has more than just 3 countries dumb fuck. I dont know which shit hole u came from but it it obviously flawed in its education system otherwise dumb fucks like u wouldn't exist. Dont pretend to be an expert just because u have lived here for 10 years. And for fucks sake, don't even start with 'Asia'. Before simply writing down any shit fuck that passes through your shit hole of a brain, please have some decency to use your brains and do some research (assuming you do have one). U lived in Laos, Vietnam and Thailand and you want to stereotype not only SE Asia, but the whole Asia? If you paid any attention in school, you would know that countries like Singapore, Malaysia, Japan, Korea, China and Russia is in Asia. So do not stereotype dumb fuck. Just because u've written 2 or 3 books doesnt make u an expert.
wow, if u can talk this much on typing, imaging when u can actually saying it…………. u could nag more than a chinese woman i have to say
LOL BRONCO IS A FAT ASS FAGGOT WHO WISHES HE COULD GET GIRLS BUT CAN'T SO SPENDS MOST OF HIS TIME SHOVING PIZZA UP HIS ASS BECAUSE THERES NO MORE ROOM LEFT IN HIS MOUTH FROM THE 5 DICKS HE IS ATTEMPTING TO SUCK AT ONCE!!
thats so true i agree with you Bronco kkkk
You just leave some years in SEA, probably JUST THAILAND and you think that's how Asian women all are? You even published books about that? then go fuck yourself your highness, pity you just have very bad experience with bad women. FYI when you stay in such countries all you have with your attitude is just cheap sex and fake respect. The well educated and have a life women would never LOOK at you. Nobody could say their country is clean from prostitution and especially the US, if you come from there. Go back to your own country to spend your little retirement money with some serious and well educated relationships bastard. Only dirty and sick men coming to Thailand for cheap sex would read your what-ever-so-called books, which I guess mostly on sex guide or how to get laid with minimal money.
I wonder what kind of books you have published and if anyone has ever bought it because from the way you write your comments your english sucks and how much more could you let us believe that you can really write a book? Perhaps you did but I am pretty sure no one dares to read a book written with lousy english grammar.
@BroncoBKK, during my years living in BKK I've met a lot of bigoted biased farang. Even after years living in the kingdom they know little of Thai language, history or culture beyond the go-go joints and beer bars. They invariably judge all Asian women by their narrow low-life experiences in the bars. Many of these social misfits tell pitiful stories about how they were ripped off by Thai hookers. For most of these blokes it is hopeless to expect they will ever wake up to the incontrovertible truth I've learn after 25 years living, studying and working in Asia. "Humans are all human everywhere in the world." It's too bad that many, like you, will never get it,
It depends on what kind of people you are. Some western guys like to cling with prositutes and don't know how to find decent ones. Actually, they don't deserve good ones haha
what a loser
Don't say most of them. We have many standard, the one you met might be prostitute.
i'm a SE Asian, but not Thai, Vietnam, or Myanmar. I can say that from my almost 3 decades life in my country, i've met lots of westerner. Of all them, i can see that most of westerner who came here have a specific judgement about what good looking women is. Many times in the past i've been wondering, how can many westerner (not all) pick out whats many locals considered as ugly here. But then i've seen them all and those girls and womens actually have one in common, they're ugly but have a smoking hot body. So, i guess no wonder if your one decade in those three countries are spent with whores, since you might also be one of those who are easy to lure with big boobs.
But, i think thats some kind of a bless for us locals too, cause i must admit i've met many real attracive girls and women interested more in westerner here, mostly not for money but for their fantasies of disney prince charming, or they just wants having a foreigner as boyfriend or spouse. I guess if God really exist, God proven to be just hehehe ;P
btw, i've also have some westerner friends around age of 20 to 45. you know what, at first i always guide them to the prostitution areas, and met my materialistic friends. most of them wonder if thats how we SE Asians are, do i say yes? at first yeah, i said yes and most of them easily accept it as truth for weeks without even trying to search for a better truth. it would be for years to forever if i dont tell them that i was lying to them, which i always eventually do.
my advice to you, SE Asia is big, not to mention Asia. If you really want to be accepted as an expert on Asian, or even just SE Asian, Anthropologist, a decade on three of SE Asia countries far from enough. Not to mention i suspect you're only studying no more than 5% of those three countries territories combined.
Right now i must say, every Anthropologist will be upset knowing you, as you just tarnished their field of study with that kind of foolish pretentious study. And even a mathematical genius can write as many book as they want about Anthropologist, but does that counts? not at all.
you have no idea how big is asian is to see how many good women than a bad women.open your eyes dude,you have a very narrow and negative perspective on others without judging it. LOL
It really depends on the woman
Learn to read, then comment on the article. Your statements are mere opinions of a simple minded oaf. This article is written by some American who goes by Foxington Delware, by the name is probably not asian and doesn't know what the fuck he's talking about.
Its look like i'm not the only one who disagree with you..In my opinion,you should think twice.I guess u are asian's haters.Well,in this case,i'm a little bit agree and little bit disagree with you.I think u should think about what the others said like Anon,Kim and other.Not all the things u said are wrong but like Anon said,it depends on the women itself.Not only asians but western women also the same.Rather than searching about those things,why don't u search about asians culture or other and make a book for it.I believe,u will be love by many people and i'm sure u don't want to be hated by many people,right? ^^
ur mentality suckz……. u dnt evn knw wt ur talking abt,….. if u knw all ov it abt asians jux cm n live here……
th bottom line………. NOT ALL here , are the same….. nd dnt evn dare to compare….
bullshit.. there are everywhere lazy womens and active womens.. not only about asians.. Asians actually to yucky people.. i have analysed that .. yuck
May be this was true 50 years ago or so but not anymore. Most of my Asian female friends are quite westerized and do what they please and do not act like a servant to please their husbands
I really think this article was written by a male chuvanist stuck in the wrong era LOL
If your mom is a servant for you then Asian wife will be. In Asia we obey our wives very much and always trying to look after them.. It's like a sharing caring system.
I'm Thai, and this is bullshit… The writer of this article should be put to sleep for good
I think your right on this most asian women tend to their husband than other country does because of this lives of asian people are more harmonious and less divorce. I agree with with TJC most of the modern women nowadays doesn't know any household choirs and just looks at themselves if their pretty or not if that's the case I'd rather be single than me caring for her like a little kid or child what a waste of time. useless women only cares for partying and doing useless things in the end when they get old they will only realized they've just wasted those precious time and it's already too late they're old their beauty just fades and didn't realized the time that they've wasted.
Yes, sort of are true, but mostly are not, im sorry to tell this, but woman nowadays, are spoiled… Even me I'm a woman from southeast asia…. I don't even know how to cook too. lol.
I met some works of Sunthorn Phu, (1786 – 1855);during 2005. Some poems was telling about relations between husband and wife, indeed but i didn't find anywhere that this poet was recommending, giving advices to anyone.
So i would like Foxington Delaware to point to me on some works of Sunthorn Phu – as he is cited, quoted here.
I don't think this is authentic, I don't believe these words belong to Sunthorn Phu, at all. I think it is interpretation made by Foxington.
In case i wrong, i would like to remind all posters here that the time when Sunthorn Phu was living and creating, is really way far from now. So, even if this is his work, it is outdated. World is change and things are change, life is change. Anywhere. So, his work is interesting for readers just as a kind of remember the culture and traditions of Thailand LONG TIME AGO. Outdated for sure.
Next, Sunthorn Phu could talk only about Thai women in that past time. (1786-1855) but NOT about Thai woman today(which is so opposite to his words) and especially not about ALL ASIAN women. That was in THAT time only. Today, the differences between ASIAN women are HUGE. To compare just average woman from Thailand-Vietnam-Laos, we can see it is different like heaven and hell… Many ways.
in parole povere "…serve e schiave"….ma per favooooooooooooooooooore! E nessuno pensa alle regole per far felice una donna? E bando alle solite frasucce del tipo…portafogli pieno, amante caliente ecc ecc.. Serve solo rispetto reciproco, profondo, comunicazione sincera e voglia di crescere assieme e di costruire, non di distriggere…semplici regole, ma fondamentali.
we men are happy as long as our girlfriend/wife is happy
No.
If a woman is not willing to treat her man as a king, when I say her man is not any man, I talking about a man who treats her as a queen as well, namely, her husband, then she should not marry at all. People dont understand what marriage is,it is not a competition between sexes, 2 people make an agreement to take care of each other, your are my wife I am your husband, I am your slave you are my slave is the best sense of the word. You have a problem I be there for you, I have a problem I will be there for you. When a woman start thinking that taking care of the right man is being slave, then we are doomed and bow to divorce down the road.
I sometimes wake up and make coffee and breakfast, I take showers with her, give her a massage, drive her to work if I am not working, etc…I cut the grass, fix the car, she cleans the place, etc…. It is all about being nice to your partner, She is nice to me as well. I she wants sex and I dont fell like it, guess what I do, I have sex with her because being selfish is not compatible with relationships. If I want sex and she does not, guess what happens, We have sex too, because it is a good and important part of the relationship. Does that mean we are slave? NO and NO. I am writing this so people reconsider a few things.