Asian women share tips on how to catch a man and keep him happy.
For generations Asian women learned how to treat a man by following rules laid down by Thai philosopher Sunthron Phu in his book Maxims for Teaching Women. Now they’ve taken his words of wisdom that have been passsed down fro more than 2,000 years and updated them to deal with men in 2012.
Here are the winning recommendations for Western women who want to trade be successful in love and marriage:
1) YOUR MAN IS KING - Remember that your man/husband comes first – before you, your parents, your outside interests or even your children.
2) RISE EARLY. Get up in the morning before your man does. Make sure you prepare a healthy breakfast so he gets a good start on the day. Even if you have to leave before him, make sure he has a nice breakfast waiting for him when he comes into the kitchen in the morning.
3) NEVER NAG. Never, ever. If he wants to stop off after work and have a few drinks with his buddies, that’s his business. If he forgot to take out the garbage – do it yourself.
4) BE AT HOME. Make sure you’re always at home when he gets in from a hard day at the office. Even if you are working, make sure you get home to your man/husband as soon as possible.
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That would be nice.
A bunch of selfish women writing over here, If treating the right man as a king is not good for you, then what is the point of getting in a relationship?, what is the point of getting married at all?. I think that a lot of women have been brainwashed by the TV or watching too much Kim Kardashian show.
Nooooooo waaaaay!!! this is bullshit. I did everything written above, but my guy took advantage of me… He cheated on me , tricked me, so he can fuck other girls he wasnt afraid to hurt me knowing that I am very nice and obedient to him, i treated him as my King, I do everything he says and wants, i makes him happy, he knows and he was comfortable that I cant leave without him so he took advantage of it, worst is whrn I started complaining (because it hurts so much knowing the fact that hes cheating on me) he started beating me up…. I cried every night and prayingfor God to help me forget about my feelings for him and start worrying for myself, many months I was violently abused physically and emotionally, i was hurt so much I attempted to commit suicide, I didnt do anything wrong I just loved the wrong man, he changed alot after almost 2years of our relationship… I learned from my past. I will nevet show to my future guy anymore how I really love. Afraid that they might take advantage of me again.
you said it, i treated him as a king but he did not do the same to you, so, it is your fault for staying in that situation, dump the prick, but you did not do that. From your comment I see you are weak and unfair, you might make a mistake in the future mistreating the right man, just because you made a mistake. Recover from that fall and look forward, learn from that but dont assume every man is like that, otherwise you will be adopting cats in the future.
i never expected a treatment as a queen from him, im happy with wat im doing because i was inlove..i just wanna make him happy and for him to remain faithful to me by giving him everything he wanted..but some guys are just jerks and would take advantage of their woman for their selfish desires..but u are right. I learned from it.
That is part of life, we live and we learn, next be more picky, more selective. Dont blame other men for one jerk you fell for. Remember it was your fault. I have been thru some bad expiriences as well, specially one with an asian woman i really liked, but i moved on Learn from waht happened and be fair.
Love should be a 2 way street, love who loves you, otherwise they take you for a fool and you will suffer. Dignity above all.
It's just that you dated the wrong man
thats what I did actually, i was so picky and i found him very diffrrent, nice, all the good things..but after a year he changed a lot…I found out he was just covering his true colors to get me fall inlove and when its deeper he showed the real him… anyways. Thats past. Im just sharing my experience, so u guys would know and realize not to hurt a woman if she really loves u, do not take advantage… because it will change her life and perspective with men, thanks.
That is true, I am sorry that that happened to you. It is not good to play games with other people feelings. But let me tell you something, sometimes love blinds us from the reality that is in front of us, we refuse to see what is wrong with the picture, and we overlook redflags. Maybe you failedl in noticing them, I am not blaming you for what he did to you. In short, I would like you to grow above what happened to you, we all have had bad experiences in life, but we recover from them, we learn and become stronger. Dont deny yourself the opportunity of knowing other people, not everybody is bad. I appreciante you share what happened to you. I wish you find somebody good one day, I am sure you will appreciate that.
a real man knows this.. but if he really loves you he wont do this..
Yes ii know now. Thank u all. And God bless us
That’s all bullshit.
we need more biitchs like that cause biitchs now days all the look for bigger dicks.
EACHS women in the world has its advantages and disanventages. No women in Asia, Europe, America, India, Arabic, including Afrika. If he likes, then she looked at from the point of excess. If you hate, then he looked at from the point of weakness. And if granted, means he is less keen. So, if you love or hate, enough with only modest. But i liked the girl who looks at picture above. Beoutiful, and Asia really so, you know. Thank you.
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Wtf…an Asian here and I don’t even do this crap this is like being ur hushbands slave I swere he’s gonna take advantage of this and treats u like shit!
Do listen to the damn website WOMEN!
And MEN if u really love ur wife then don’t make her goes thru all the hard work while u just do nothing and watch her suffer from keeping you
IF YOU DON’T LOVE SOMEONE DON’T MARRY/ VE WITH THEM FUND YOURSELF SIMEONE ELSE THAT IS HAPPY TO BE YOUR SLAVE!!!!!!!
Good luck finding a doormat. It seems that you made bad decision and now you are paying.
wtf? is that the way you speak "lady"?
a lot selfish women writing here, not only selfish but weak. They made bad decision selecting a man, the picked the wrong man, but that is what they liked in their 20's, then they say, "men are not good" and they should be treated badly, wrong, wrong and wrong. One commentator said "i did everything and he still cheated bla bla bla", you liked the prick it is your fault, dont blame other men for you mistakes. Women and men should not be affraid of treated the "RIGHT" person as a king or queen, that is the only way, make bad decision and get bad results, pick the prick and you know what to expect, dont blame anybpdy else.
As a man, I was wondering if you would like to here my opinion.
You guys have to keep in mind that these rules were written long ago an then poorly translated. Let me offer a better translation for both genders:
1) Your Spouse comes first:
Never take the side of someone else against your spouse (on the big matters). Spouses are supposed to always be able to turn to the other for help or support, no matter what.
2) Commit to your responsibilities: Always make sure to provide for your spouse. Use your talents to support your spouse and don't let personal preferences or desires interfere with that. (i.e. If your talent or responsibility is to cook for your spouse, get up early to make them breakfast, even if you have to work. If your talent is repairing the house, then fix that leaky roof now, not when your show is over.)
3) Don't Pry: Non of that clingy teenager business! Everybody needs their space. If your man wants to hang with the guys and have a beer occasionally, let him. If your woman wishes to have a girl's night out occasionally, let her. Then be sure to ask if they had fun, when they get back. You can be involved in their away-from-home life without actually being there. (Also, if they don't wish to talk about it, that normally just means that they had a bad day, don't insist, lest you start an argument.)
4) Home is only "home", when everyone is there: Fun and responsibilities are important (in fact, it is unhealthy to live without either), but always make sure to make time to spend at home with each other. No plans are necessary. It is important to have unscheduled time to talk about the bad and enjoy the good together. Without this important element a relationship will always become more distant and it can lead to either person (or both) questioning the relationship and the purpose of it.
Ladies keep in mind that we men tend to read articles like this to try and translate a version for men and obtain advise to make you happier as well. ^_^ We love you!
Nah, those are the past Asian women
Asian women nowadays are as bad as their male counterparts. That's why you can find more and more unmarried men and women more and more these days. I'm married and I do almost all the house chores while my wife sleeps a lot. I go to work everyday and she still complains about life…….
you should dump her or show her a lesson somehow, they complain about "being slaves" but see what they do to you and you allow that to happen, become a man a let her know that that is not acceptable if she does not get it you should drop her at ther first corner.
Actually, I heard Korea is second highest in divorce rates, right behind the U.S.
TRUE, I WONDER WHY
CHINA & KOREA ALSO HAVE A HIGH SUICIDE RATE
i think it doesn't matter what race. it depends on the respect and understanding on each other.
Inferiority complex, if she thinks that treating the right man in a good way is being slave, then man, you dont need that type of a woman, they are weak, with inferiority complex and problably slept arounf many times with pricks and now complain about man being bad and you are going to pay for her bad decisions and personality flaws. Now she should be rejected because she rejected the right man in her 20's, She should try a bit of her own chocolate and then she can appreciate a relationship.
Ha, for real? they are just HOTER then most of other woman
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Yeah, they're pretty good, but I feel like there are pieces of advice to be tolerated by a man. I'm sure that a man in love will appreciate that you want to spend time with him. I know I would.
Yeah, if a person loves you he automatically loves everything that's wrong or not as it supposed to about you. Never in spite of all those things. If a man tells you "I love you although you act crazy sometimes" that's not love. Not to mention there's something that he is or isn't doing that makes you be jealous. .. most of the times.
Exactly. A relationship should be the thing that lifts you up when you're down and not make it harded to get through problems.
1) YOUR MAN IS KING – Remember that your man/husband comes first – before you, your parents, your outside interests or even your children.
Seriously, what kind of selfish Asian bastards are you revering on? Dont put people on the same level of prefferences as you. I'm a guy, me and all my friends would actually break up/divorced women who act like that. Parents and children came first, thats how Asian culture really is. Real asian culture, even now, is still more to family, roughly said its like a wolf pack. Women who dont value their family arent sexy ;P
So, just as i said before, i will without a doubt break up/divorced with women that dont put family in highest regard, even if its done for me. And what kind of mother put their husband first before children? i dont want a wife like that. My wife can left me to die, but i'll kill her myself if she left my child to die for whatever reason.
But, if its about friends, of course husband should came first, since husband is family member too. As long as there're no domestic violence in the family.
3) NEVER NAG. Never, ever. If he wants to stop off after work and have a few drinks with his buddies, that’s his business. If he forgot to take out the garbage – do it yourself.
Well, no one thinks taking out garbage as one of their hobbies. Nothing wrong with not doing our part of chore once in a while, we're not robots.
4) BE AT HOME. Make sure you’re always at home when he gets in from a hard day at the office. Even if you are working, make sure you get home to your man/husband as soon as possible.
Thats old ways. If guys want their wife always home when he got back from work, dont marry a carrier woman. I can find lots of woman who dont want to have a carrier (though i never actually care about that short of things), why cant you?
7) LET HIM HANG WITH FRIENDS. If your man wants to have his buddies over for a night of poker, or football, or video games, don’t get mad. Encourage it and make sure you’ve got lots of sandwiches and cold beer on hand to serve them.
Not for me, i prefer my wife not serving anything to my friends, simply cause thats my wife. My friends can get their drink themselves, or if its a party, i rather serve them myself than let my wife do it.
8) ASK FIRST. Always ask him first before you go spending his hard-earned money, or even your hard-earned money, to buy something for yourself.
My hard-earned money?? hell yeah!!
Her hard-earned money?? nope.
9) REMOTE CONTROL. Let him choose the programs you watch onteleveision. The television is man’s domain… he should be in charge. And only Netflix/rent HIS favorite movies or TV shows.
again, what kind of selfish Asian bastard are you reffering on?? if i want a tv for myself, i will placed it in one room that only me have the right to use.
10) OBEY. Don’t do things your husband doesn’t approve of. And don’t complain about it. If he doesn’t want you wasting your time watching soap operas or having coffee with a neighbor, obey him. You’ll both be happier for it.
Well, i'm not that kind of anti-social guy, but i do hate some activities and preffer not to see my wife and children do it. For example, abusing drugs, stealing, bullying, etc.
The husband is part of the family too, once you marry somebody, parents go to a second place, you still love them and respect them but you are creating your own family now. If you are not able to understand that you should marry your parents.
You should live as far as possible from your parents so they not intervene in your personal life. Call them frequenly, go and visit them but they should understand that children growing and leaving to create their family is part of life.
If a woman put me first, then that is the woman I will marry, I will put her first as well. If she puts her parents above me, then she should go and live with them. Why should I give my hard earned money, a house and children to a woman that considers somebody else above me?
If a man tells a woman that certain neighbors are not good, I am sure he has a good reason for saying that and the woman should listen, the same applies the other way around. And yes, the woman should let the man has control of the remote, I dont picture a real man watching OPRAH show. let us be real here.
Only marry a woman that puts you first, if you dont do this you are making a big mistake, I dont care asian or not.
Tha MAN
why you are mixing your friends with your wife friends should be at out side and your wife dosnt concern with your friends you must keep seprate friends and wife,,,,, there should not be interfarance of your friends between you and your wife but you,, seems like an english culture there is huge difference betwenn asian and english culture THANKS GOD that we are muslims and having islamic culture which best all over the world there is nothing better then islamic culture and in islamic culture this is not allowed that your mix your friends and wife shame for every one which agreed with you
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This is all just wrong…. This is basically saying "a woman should not have a life of her own. She has no right to it unless her partner decides to grant that permission, so don't expect anything or to be happy yourself, just shut up and do as you're told."
Relationships are hard. Very hard.
You have to work on them a lot for them to come good at all, and it's true that you often don't see a guy's true colours until a while of being with him, but that's why a woman has to stay on top of her feet. If you see something that could become a problem, even if it sounds like you're winging, bring it up straight away. If you leave it to go stale, it will only get worse and perhaps become unrepairable.
No guy is perfect, so why should a woman treat a man like that when it gives him the opportunity to do so much wrong. If you do everything that's mentioned above, he's going to end up thinking he is God and will treat you poorly. If you don'y act like someone who should be treated with equality, then you're never, EVER going to get it. I've learnt only recently that men are fickle and they are all clueless to the thoughts us women have, so we need to let them know and help them understand. All men are like this. It's not something wrong so much, but it's just the difference between the genders.
I honestly believe that no woman could truly live like this. She's break down in no time at all.
If I had listened to what's above in my current relationship, it would have ended very quickly. He wouldn't know what he does hurts me and maybe wouldn't care. I definitely would have been miserable all the time, and he certainly would have cheated on me or at least tell me it is okay for him to have another woman. I have fought for this current relationship for more than a year and I have loved my man for a very long time, and I know he loves me too, although he can't show it very well. Again, this seems to be a man thing. ;p I'm starting to realise it now and I admit, none of this has been easy. We've fought a lot and even almost broke up a fortnight ago, but having a little spat really helped me out a lot and I feel like the relationship is stronger than ever now, and only because we're both worked so hard on it. He is a person with a past filled with many stupid mistakes and I am someone that tries her best to do no wrong (although doing something wrong is always inevitable) and I've been hurt many times. Not doing anything, or namely doing what it says above ruined many things for me. Being nice doesn't work. You have to fight for it if you want the relationship, and keep fighting. You have to speak up when you're unhappy, or he may never know. You have to set down rules and boundaries, otherwise there is no statement of right and wrong, and how could the guy take it seriously?
For once, I have done something really right here by doing all of what I've said, and only because I'm tried so hard. As proof, I said my boyfriend made many stupid mistakes and doesn't have a great past. I am the ONLY girlfriend that he hasn't cheated on. The rest he was unfaithful to, and that in itself for him has become what he calls one of the biggest redeeming factors about his whole life. He feels that he can change now and he is very happy, very proud of himself for how he is and how he's behaved.
But had I done what this article says, it never would have worked out. As it is, although neither of us are perfect, I love him so much and it's only possible because of all the effort we both put in. All those arguments and talks and fights and the like paid off. Now we are on the right path, we're seeing each other eye to eye and we have the beginnings of a stable and strong, long lasting relationship.
One last thing. I don't have any, but if I ever had children, they would always come before my partner and I'm sure he would be infuriated with me to no end if I did put him before them. If you don't care for them more than anyone else, who else will? How will they early on in life feel cared for and know how to make the right decisions? How will they feel worth anything? And it's not by duty. It's something that you'd do because you love and want the best for them. What's better if it's some kind of happiness that you and your partner have created together? A sign of that. Your children become the symbol of the love you share together and they carry with them you and your partners love for the rest of their lives.
you are taking anything to the limit, nobody is perfect including you. And on putting children or partner before each other I think you avoid getting in that situation. If you are not willing to treat a man correctly, then the solution is easy, dont get into any relationship, if you do it will fall apart, nobody like angry bitchies.
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WAIT A MINUTE…..I'm a Thai and I've read that book of Sunthorn Phu in high school before and WHAT IS WRITTEN HERE IS TOTALLY DIFFERENT from what the book is actually about.
Please note that the book is really really old so it merely suggests on how proper Thai women should behave AT THE TIME IT WAS WRITTEN, not now though much of it still applies today.
For example, it says that a woman should know what kind of clothes suits her in terms of skin color, height, body shape or whatever because if she just wears whatever is in trend, she might end up looking worse. (this is always true anyway)
Another thing it mentions is how a good wife should be like which will sound a bit weird and unfair even to me. This is because in Siamese (Thai) society at the time, women were not quite equal to men. An example from the book is that a wife's role includes being a personal cook, nurse or even something like a maid(in case you're not rich enough to have servants). The only thing I see here which is the same as the book is rising early.
Well, the book was actually written for a princess anyway so some of it didn't apply to commoners at the time. But hey, I myself find some of it still applicable even in modern Thai society, I think some of it might even work in western culture. And let me say it again, the actual book doesn't sound anywhere near what is written here.
If anyone wants to know more, it's better to go read an ACCURATE translation of the book.
Thanks for understanding.
Ps. I see some bad comments about Asian women here and I must admit that SOME are really like that BUT NOT ALL. So please don't use that unfair stereotype to judge the rest of us.
i am thai man and i agree with you.
that book said about how women do to be a good women (in men eyes) but it very old (about 200 years old) some of them can be use now and some are no use.
If modern thai women do only half of it i think her husband will cry the tear of joy
But the main point in change is before when the book wrote is at that time men work (in the field or ect.) and women just stay home and do chore.Men bring money in and women use it. Then it not strange that women should do as men is a benefactor and try to make him happy.
But now men and women also do their work and do to each other as equal.
nice all. . ..
Ive heard this sooo much in far east place's,
I wish it was that was here,
I cant even ask a question to most woman here as they dont know how to respond
or even share in the conversation.